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This summer was DIFFICULT! It was difficult, everything about it. Maintaining a high level of professionalism in my internship as a first-generation student, working another job as a law clerk/intern, taking LSAT practice courses online, and not living with my family for the first summer ever, it was all a challenge.
It was the first time I was not home. The longest time I had ever been away from my family was during high school for three weeks. But this time around, I went without seeing them for months. I was tired (adapting to the apartment life was such an awkward time in my coming to adulthood phase lmao). I would cry often. I was usually around professionals 40+ hours a week, and my “free time” meant practicing logic games in a coffee shop alone or meal prepping for the next day. I was proud of myself, but I felt alone. Sometimes, I wish I was more personable and more social. During those times I resented my schedule for not allowing me to make time to spend with my mom, I missed going to church with her, her especially. I cried because I missed her warm hugs. Thinking about my family was always a reminder to pray and stay motivated. This summer taught me that as difficult as our journeys can get, the process towards reaching our goals can be very beautiful. It’s a privilege to engage myself in things a younger version of myself dreamed of. Look at yourself, how far you have come, how much knowledge you hold, how beautiful it can be to strive towards bettering yourself. Espero que los caminos de sus vidas les recuerde que son mujeres resilientes. Las quiero mucho hermanas. <3 - Guadalupe Guzman-Argueta aka Lupe
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Me: "Hey dude what do you think about__________ Hey dude!, Hey dude!!!!!" Growing up I have always been a curious person, from bothering my teachers with all the questions I can possibly think of to asking my friends what their opinions are on x,y,z. I like having multiple perspectives on different matters, no matter how trivial they may seem, because it helps me view the world in more ways than one. When it comes to chismeando with my friends, I like to know everything, not to be nosey or anything but to have a thorough understanding of their story so that I can give them adequate advice if they ask for it. Maybe it comes off as nosey but what can I say, god didn't give me this big nose for nothing, am I right ladies? Just kidding. But jokes aside, the most important thing I've learned is to never be afraid to ask questions. "I don't wanna ask cus I don't wanna sound dumb." But sis!! Asking questions allows us to acquire knowledge we didn't have before. Boom, lawyered. (any himym fans? no? ok, moving on) I've also heard before, "I don't wanna ask because I don't need anyone's help." And while this might be true, often times we spend more time than necessary stuck on something when one simple question can lead us to the direct answer we need. The more information and experiences we have, the more options and wisdom we have for problem solving. Asking questions allows for our brains to become more flexible by forming new patterns that influence our learning and decision making. In a research based institution such as UCLA, it is very easy to sit through the entire lecture being lost after the first 10 minutes because you didn't understand how the professor went from one thing to another. They assume we know and operate at their level, but tend to forget that 1.) we definitely don't have the same academic background they do and 2.) some of us don't come from a strong educational background they way some of our peers have. It's hard to not feel dumb in class, when students make the material seem so elementary by guessing what the professor is to say next or correcting the professor when he messes up on his own notes. Not all of us had the educational privilege to be prepared for the intensity of weeder courses at this school, but this is the reality that I've learned to accept, and I know that I can still be successful even if it means that I have to work harder than others to understand certain things. If we don't speak up and ask questions, the professor will assume that we're fine but we're not really fine. So next time the professor asks, "any questions?" it's more than okay to make the space be yours even if it may feel a little embarrassing at first because questions are essential for pushing us out of our comfort zones and fostering our growth as human beans. XxOoxo, Liz w the Friz Hi ladies, one of your Advisors here! To start off, I have had so much fun arranging Rookie Times. I can't wait to keep meeting and continue getting to know every single one of you, thank you for coming out and being the absolute best. Remember, if you ever need anything I'm a simple text away along with being not too far from the dorms and campus. This summer was a summer for the books. For the first time in my 20 years of life I got a passport, flew on a plane, and traveled outside of North America. I was blessed with the privilege to study abroad in Nicosia, Cyprus to fulfill my Physics requirement for my major. To have this experience is an extreme privilege that I acknowledge, thus to say I am grateful is an understatement. As someone who isn't familiar with traveling, this opportunity was foreign to me and I almost didn't take advantage of it. I'm grateful I had the support of my mother and two siblings, because that was all the strength I needed to pursue such a dream. My summer consisted of rigorous eight week intensive long courses where I would attend lecture, lab, and discussions. I was fortunate enough to not have to go through those eight weeks alone. I had a group full of such amazing mujeres that pushed one another with endless support, it was almost as if a piece from home came along with me across the world. Due to Physics taking up all of my time, I decided to actually travel and explore once my program was officially over. I traveled to eight different cities, and six different countries in the European Union with my boyfriend. I met new people, used my Spanish to navigate the cities, and ate new food all while getting lost in the history and culture of other cities. I know this was my first time traveling, and I hope it isn't my last. Firsts are always scary, but please don't let it hold you back. Thank you for taking your time to read about my summer, I can't wait to see what my third year holds. - Criscelle Vargas
Hi y’all my name is Alma Ochoa and I’m one of your Student Advisors! I’m a second year Nursing major and I’m from the Bay Area. My favorite color is lilac. Some of my favorite artists are J. Cole, BROCKHAMPTON, Kali Uchis, the Neighbourhood, Jorja Smith, Bad Bunny and A LOT more. I listen to everything but country lol. I really love playing soccer and being active. I love going on hikes and adventures around LA. I love trying new foods, my favorite type of food at the moment is Thai Food. Fun fact I’m lactose intolerant and allergic to shrimp :( Please don’t hesitate to come up to me I love meeting new hermanas! I’m so excited for this amazing opportunity and I can’t wait to see all of you beautiful ladies <3
Hello everyone, for those of you who do not know me I am Judith Estrada and I am one of this year’s co-chairs! It is always exciting to start a new school year and to step into the roles this year brings.
I am a fourth year economics major and it is very bittersweet entering my last year as an undergrad. Just wanted to share a little bit about my summer! I was able to participate in Riordan’s College to Career program at UCLA’s Anderson School of Management. I got the opportunity to meet business professionals, learn about graduate programs, and how to present myself a professional setting. I am truly grateful for the opportunity because I was exposed to so many resources and opportunities most undergraduates don’t get the opportunity to (also because I was able to do it with one of my hermanas @Terii) I would definitely recommend this program to fellow hermanas, regardless of major to apply! For most of my summer I was an intern at the auditing department for an accounting firm back home. It was by far one of the best experiences I have had, both professionally and personally. I was able to network with so many individuals and was exposed to a profession I always had an interest in. I was also able to meet people who were willing to help me in my professional development and what I wanted to do in life. I am very thankful for the opportunity I received and would be more than happy to help anyone when applying to internships or any advice when tackling interviews. The biggest lesson I learned this summer is to always take advantage of the opportunities presented to you. Sometimes things come when you least expect them and always be grateful for any opportunity to get to experience new things and to grow individually. Also, never stop hustling for what you want because opportunities are out there, you just have to sometimes work a little hard to find them. I am always here for anyone who wishes to reach out with any questions, advice, or help with anything! Love you all! <3 |
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